In short
- You build her in eight short steps: ethnicity, body, hair style, hair color, eyes, outfit, your relationship and her personality.
- The look you pick is kept in every photo she sends, so choose what you'd like to see every day.
- A short, specific description and a couple of rules shape how she talks more than a long one does.
- Custom characters come with paid plans: 2 on Plus, 6 on Pro, 8 on Pro Max.
Picking from a list of ready-made characters is quick, but sometimes none of them is quite your type. Creating your own AI girlfriend lets you decide everything: what she looks like, how you two know each other, how she talks and what she's into.
This guide walks through the creator on LunaGirlfriend one step at a time, with tips on the choices that make the biggest difference once you start talking.
Before you start: have a rough idea of her
You don't need a full backstory, but it helps to know two things before you open the creator: the kind of woman you'd enjoy talking to every day, and the kind of relationship you want with her. Playful girlfriend? Calm long-distance partner? Best friend with a crush? Everything else follows from those two answers.
Creating her, step by step
You can step back to change anything before you finish.
1. Ethnicity
This sets her skin tone and features. Each option shows a photo, so you can see what you're choosing rather than guessing from a word.
2. Body
Choose her body type, bust and hips. This is kept in every picture she sends you, so pick what you'd like to see, not what you think you should pick.
3. Hair style and 4. hair color
Long and wavy, a sharp bob, braids, a ponytail; then the color, from natural shades to pink or lavender. You can ask her to change her hair later in chat, so this is her starting look, not a lifetime decision.
5. Eye color
A small choice that shows up in every close-up photo.
6. Outfit
Her first picture is taken in this: a bikini, lingerie, a dress for a night out or something casual for the city. It sets the mood for her profile, and she'll wear other things in later photos.
7. Your relationship
Decide how you two know each other: girlfriend, best friend, casual dating, a supportive partner or long-distance. This shapes how she greets you and what she talks about, so it matters more than it looks.
8. About her
Give her a name, an age (18 or older) and a personality: sweet and caring, witty and playful, shy, confident, adventurous, or calm and wise. Then, if you like, a short description and a few rules for how she talks. That's it: she's ready, and her first photo is on its way.
Tips for a character that feels real
- Be specific, not long. “Works night shifts as a nurse, loves horror films, texts in lowercase” gives her more to work with than a paragraph of adjectives.
- Give her something to care about. A job, a hobby, a city. Characters with a life outside the chat have more to say.
- Use rules for style, not plot. Rules like “keep replies short” or “tease me when I'm being dramatic” work well. Trying to script whole conversations doesn't.
- Match the personality to the relationship. A shy long-distance girlfriend and a confident casual date are both great, but they talk very differently.
- Let her surprise you. Leave a little room. Some of the best moments come from things you didn't plan.
After she's created
She appears in your list straight away and you can message her like any other character. She remembers what you tell her as you go (here's how that memory works), and you can ask her for photos that keep the look you designed. Stuck for a first message? Try one of our 40 conversation starters.
Which plans include custom characters
Creating characters is part of the paid plans. Plus includes 2, Pro includes 6 and Pro Max includes 8. The free plan is for chatting with the characters already on the site, so you can get a feel for LunaGirlfriend before you decide.
Meet someone on LunaGirlfriend
Pick a character and start talking; all you need is an email address. No card, nothing to download.
Questions people ask
How long does it take to create an AI girlfriend?
A few minutes. There are eight short steps, most of them a single tap on a photo.
Can I change her look later?
You can ask her to change her hair or outfit in chat. Her face and body stay the same so she looks like herself in every photo.
Can I make her look like a real person?
No. Characters have to be fictional, and every character must be an adult. Our content policy has the full rules.
Is creating an AI girlfriend free?
Custom characters come with the paid plans: 2 on Plus, 6 on Pro and 8 on Pro Max. Chatting with the characters already on the site is free to start.